5 Reasons Why Palace Staff Are Reportedly Frustrated With William And Kate's 'Attitude Change'

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Reports of tension within the royal household have surfaced in late 2025, suggesting that a significant shift in the working style of the Prince and Princess of Wales is causing frustration among palace staff and aides. This friction is rooted in a fundamental change in the couple's priorities and a deliberate move away from the traditional model of royal duty, which has been amplified by the demands of the modern monarchy and the pressures of a 'slimmed-down' Firm. The core issue revolves around the royal couple's unwavering commitment to their 'family-first' policy, a principle that is increasingly clashing with the expectations of the royal roster.

The murmurs of discontent, which pre-date Princess Kate’s highly publicized health challenges in 2024, have been consistently highlighted by royal commentators like journalist Camilla Tominey, Associate Editor at The Telegraph. The frustration is not necessarily about personal temperament but a strategic disagreement: the Waleses are determined to "do things their own way," which has led to a perceived aversion to the relentless schedule of official duties expected by the Household Staff and Aides. This new approach, while popular with the public, is creating a logistical and operational headache for the professionals tasked with managing the future King and Queen.

The Core Conflict: Family-First vs. The Firm's Demands

The most significant source of friction is the couple’s firm decision to put their children—Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis—at the centre of their lives. This is a deliberate, modernizing choice that contrasts sharply with the upbringing of previous generations of royals. While commendable from a personal standpoint, it has a direct impact on the royal workload, leading to a perception of a reduced commitment to public engagements.

The 'Part-Time Royal' Criticism and Workload Pressure

A central criticism circulating among palace staff is the label of Kate Middleton as a "part-time royal." This is not an accusation of laziness but a reflection of a strategy to focus on fewer, more impactful engagements rather than the high volume of ribbon-cutting ceremonies and official visits that traditionally defined a senior royal's schedule. Aides are reportedly concerned that Prince William and Kate are "under growing pressure to up their workload" to meet the expectations of King Charles III’s reign, especially following the reduction in working royals.

  • Fewer Engagements: The couple's calendar is often lighter compared to other senior royals, allowing them to manage the school schedule of their children at Lambrook School.
  • Strategic Focus: Their work is heavily concentrated on long-term projects like The Royal Foundation and specific campaigns, such as Kate’s early years work, which require less frequent but more profound public appearances.
  • The Post-Succession Vacuum: Following the passing of Queen Elizabeth II, the 'slimmed-down monarchy' model, ironically, places more pressure on the remaining senior royals, making the Waleses’ selective approach a point of contention for those managing the royal roster.

The Operational Impact of Their Modern Staffing Model

The couple's desire for a more private, normal family life has directly influenced their living arrangements and, crucially, their staffing model. Their move from the grandeur of Kensington Palace to the relatively modest Adelaide Cottage on the Windsor Castle estate was symbolic of this shift, but it also created logistical challenges for the Household Staff.

No Live-In Staff at Adelaide Cottage

One of the most notable changes that frustrated traditional Household Staff is the decision by William and Kate not to employ live-in staff at Adelaide Cottage. This move was intentional, designed to foster a more hands-on, private environment for their family. In the past, a royal residence would be constantly attended by a large contingent of domestic staff, including chefs, valets, and footmen. The new model requires staff, such as the Private Secretary and members of the Communications Team, to commute, fundamentally altering the traditional 24/7 royal service structure.

This preference for privacy extends to their security and domestic arrangements, where they prefer to manage many aspects of family life themselves. This independence, while a breath of fresh air for the public, disrupts the long-established hierarchy and proximity of service that palace aides are accustomed to, making immediate, round-the-clock availability more difficult to manage.

A Clash of Generations and Management Styles

The tension can also be viewed as a generational clash between the future of the monarchy and the entrenched traditions of the Palace. Prince William, in particular, has been described as having an "informal, approachable way of going about his work," a style that is less hierarchical than his father, King Charles III, or his late grandmother.

The Demand for Autonomy and Control

The Waleses are known to be highly autonomous and prefer to control their own narrative, especially after witnessing the media scrutiny faced by other family members. This desire for control means they are less reliant on traditional Palace machinery. For senior Aides and Private Secretaries, such as Tom White or former Private Secretary Hannah Cockburn-Logie, this can translate into a feeling of being sidelined or having their expert advice ignored, particularly regarding public relations and scheduling.

Their determination to "do things their own way" is a direct challenge to the traditional power structure of the royal court, where the Household Staff often dictated the pace and style of royal life. This modern management style, focused on a smaller, more dedicated team, is a key component of the 'attitude change' that has left many long-serving palace employees feeling frustrated and uncertain about their roles.

The Broader Context of The Slimmed-Down Monarchy

The overall mood of frustration among palace staff is exacerbated by the wider context of King Charles III’s vision for a 'slimmed-down monarchy.' While the concept is to streamline the institution and reduce costs, the practical effect is a massive increase in the burden on the remaining working royals, primarily William and Kate.

As the heir and his consort, they are expected to carry a disproportionate amount of the workload, a fact that makes their commitment to a 'family-first' schedule a flashpoint. Staff members who have remained in service following the restructuring of The Firm feel that the couple's priorities are not aligning with the institutional demands placed upon them. The staff's job is to ensure the monarchy is seen as active and relevant, a task made more difficult when their principals are focused on maintaining a level of personal privacy and domestic routine unseen in previous generations of future monarchs.

Ultimately, the reports of frustration reflect a monarchy in transition. Prince William and Kate Middleton are attempting to forge a new path—one that balances the intense demands of public duty with the modern realities of raising a family. While this 'attitude change' is intended to make the monarchy more relatable and sustainable in the long term, the immediate effect is a clash with the established culture and expectations of the palace staff who serve them.

palace staff frustrated with william and kate's attitude changes
palace staff frustrated with william and kate's attitude changes

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