The Dance Floor Romance: A Deep Dive Into Alan Bersten's Complete Relationship History, Including His New Chapter With Emma Slater
Alan Bersten, the charismatic professional dancer from *Dancing with the Stars* (*DWTS*), has consistently sparked more romance rumors than almost any other pro on the show, thanks to his undeniable chemistry with his celebrity partners and fellow dancers. As of December 2025, the speculation has finally ended with the confirmation of a major new relationship, marking a significant, highly-publicized chapter in his personal life.
This article provides an in-depth look at Alan Bersten’s complete relationship history, detailing the intense ballroom romances, the fleeting rumors, and the definitive, confirmed status of his current relationship with a fellow *DWTS* star that has captivated the show’s loyal fanbase.
Alan Bersten: The Professional Profile and Biography
Alan Bersten is an American professional Latin and ballroom dancer and choreographer. His career is defined by his high-energy performances and his ability to connect with his partners, making him a fan favorite and a consistent source of relationship speculation.
- Full Name: Alan Bersten
- Date of Birth: May 26, 1994
- Age (as of Dec 2025): 31 years old
- Place of Birth: Minnetonka, Minnesota, U.S.
- Profession: Professional Latin and Ballroom Dancer, Choreographer
- Career Start: Contestant on *So You Think You Can Dance* (*SYTYCD*) Season 10 (2013)
- DWTS Debut: Professional Dancer since Season 25 (2017)
- DWTS Victory: Season 28 Winner with celebrity partner Hannah Brown (2019)
- Notable Partnerships: Alexis Ren, Hannah Brown, Amanda Kloots, Gabby Windey
The Confirmed Romance: Alan Bersten and Emma Slater (2025)
The biggest and most recent news in Alan Bersten's dating history is his confirmed relationship with fellow *DWTS* professional, Emma Slater. This romance has been a long time coming for fans, who have speculated about their chemistry for years, especially following Emma Slater’s high-profile divorce.
The 'Hard Launch' on the DWTS Tour
The relationship was officially "hard-launched" in a move that delighted fans but surprised the ballroom world. After months of rumors, the couple confirmed they were dating with a steamy, on-stage kiss during the final performance of the *DWTS: Live! 2025* tour in April 2025.
This public display of affection followed a period of intense speculation, particularly during *DWTS* Season 33, where their close friendship and undeniable bond were frequently noted by fans and co-stars alike.
The Context of Emma Slater’s Divorce
The timing of the relationship is a key factor in the media attention it has received. Emma Slater finalized her divorce from her former *DWTS* pro husband, Sasha Farber, in May 2024. For Alan and Emma to make their relationship public less than a year after her divorce was finalized indicates a serious commitment and a willingness to move forward publicly with their new chapter. The couple has since been described as "supportive" of each other, navigating their shared professional lives while maintaining their romantic bond.
A History of Ballroom Romances and Intense Rumors
Prior to his relationship with Emma Slater, Alan Bersten was known for his private nature but also for the intense romantic speculation surrounding his celebrity partners. The *DWTS* ballroom is notorious for creating high-pressure, intimate environments that often lead to real-life connections, and Alan has been at the center of several.
1. Alexis Ren (DWTS Partner, 2018)
Alan’s most famous and confirmed ballroom romance was with his Season 27 partner, model and social media influencer Alexis Ren. Their relationship was a classic case of the "showmance" turning real.
- The Connection: Their chemistry was palpable throughout the season, culminating in Alexis Ren openly confessing her feelings for Alan on camera.
- The Outcome: They officially dated briefly after the season concluded in late 2018, confirming their relationship. However, the romance was short-lived, with the distance and demands of their respective careers reportedly leading to their split in early 2019.
2. Paige VanZant (Rumored, 2016)
Before becoming a full-time pro, Alan was a troupe member. Early in his career, he was rumored to have dated MMA fighter and former *DWTS* celebrity Paige VanZant around 2016. While never officially confirmed by either party, the relationship was noted in his dating history.
3. Hayley Erbert (Past Brief Relationship)
Alan also had a brief relationship with fellow professional dancer Hayley Erbert, a former *DWTS* troupe member. This relationship occurred before Hayley began dating (and later married) ballroom legend Derek Hough.
4. Gabby Windey (DWTS Partner, 2022)
Following his partnership with *The Bachelorette* star Gabby Windey on Season 31, rumors of a romance naturally began to swirl. Gabby Windey was known for her bubbly personality, and her dynamic with Alan was a highlight of the season. While they had a strong connection and were often seen together, the relationship was never confirmed as romantic, and they maintained that they were just close friends.
5. Ilona Maher (Rumored Hookup, 2023)
In mid-2023, Alan Bersten was linked to Olympian and Sports Illustrated Swimsuit model Ilona Maher. The speculation began after the two posted several playful, close-knit pictures on social media. Despite the buzz, this was categorized as a rumored hookup, and neither confirmed a formal relationship.
What Alan Bersten’s Dating History Reveals
Alan Bersten’s trajectory in the dating world mirrors his journey on *Dancing with the Stars*. He is known for his intense focus and the deep bonds he forms with those he works closely with. His relationships, whether confirmed or rumored, almost exclusively involve people within the entertainment or dance industry, highlighting the difficulty of maintaining a romance outside of his demanding professional life.
His past with Alexis Ren showed his willingness to pursue a connection that started in the ballroom, while the current, confirmed relationship with Emma Slater signifies a more mature and stable partnership. The fact that Emma is a fellow professional dancer means they share the same unique lifestyle, understanding the grueling rehearsal schedules and the emotional intensity of the show.
This new chapter with Emma Slater, announced publicly in 2025, solidifies Alan Bersten’s place not just as a champion on the dance floor, but as one half of one of the most exciting new power couples in the *DWTS* family, following in the footsteps of other successful ballroom romances like Daniel Durant and Britt Stewart.
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